"You aspire to be amazing in both realms, but you're really..."
I watched this: Have Feminists Sold Young Women a Fiction? - YouTube And read these two articles: Why Women Still Can’t Have It All - The Atlantic Having It All—and Hating It - The Atlantic Maybe we can challange the idea of "having it all". Why we as woman feel less? What makes us feel less? Here is a qute from "Having It All—and Hating It": "(...) social media beckons its users compare every element of their lives to everyone else’s in a very public space, and then feel inadequate about not filling their feeds with smiling, well-appointed children nibbling perfectly composed, locally-sourced dinners."